Look around a nightclub, and see which type of women men ask to dance. I am sitting at the cosy bar, in a dance hall with more than 400 people. There is great music and a large dance floor. Oh, I have an idea! Let’s see who men prefer, women with a moderately sized chest and not too revealing dresses, or women who show up in bikinis, and happen to have large breasts? You guessed it, they prefer the second group. Look, I know that everyone behaves in their own natural way, I’m not judging. It is a simple explanation, if you want men to notice you in that environment, you have to bring certain qualities to the table.

A Great Job for a Blogger Like Me

Making observations is actually a great job for a blogger. “Here, take this 100 Euro, now go and study the advantages and disadvantages of having nice, big breasts.” When I did my research, I tried to dress in a natural but not too revealing way, so I wouldn’t fall in either category. When a man approached me, I politely said no. If I danced, how could I make observations? I put on one of my more miserable dresses, and went to work, literally. I’m not Miss Universe, but I usually get compliments, so it was important to remain vigilant. No mingling during the night. I am a grey mouse.

To create content for the blog, I started to pay attention to the more voluptuous women on the dance floor. Men stare at them, especially if they have long hair - not a shocker. A couple of hours passed by, I counted the ninth woman with an impressive cleavage to receive attention. It looks like a done deal. There are hundreds of men in the complex, and most of them notice these ladies, especially if they have a somewhat revealing dress. Grey mice are left behind.

Interview with a Grey Mouse

I had a conversation with a fellow grey mouse, and it was a great experience. She was sitting at the bar next to me, and told me if they didn’t take her as she is, that was their problem. Of course, she had her dress stuffed with an enormous push up bra, but who am I to judge? I said “you are right girl”, and everybody went their merry ways. The truth is, even when we think we are following our convictions and our own way, whatever that means, we still do things to blend in. Especially us women, when we want to be noticed by men. When you see that women with revealing dresses and a nice pair of breasts have the luxury of being able to choose between numerous potential partners, you think about adopting the same tactics. Who would blame the men? Someone with long hair, a nice dress and a great body, why would someone not want to talk to a person like that? Character matters, values matter, but at the end of the day, so does an appearance, and yes, that includes breast size as well.

Men Will Not Change

No part of this experience really shocked me. I knew going in that men have slightly different priorities than us, women. They cannot help but be attracted to nice breasts, long hair. Some women go all out and buy dresses worth thousands of euros. This is not necessary. If you do it for yourself, that’s great, but men will not always appreciate fashion like that, not truly, anyway. At the end of the day, you have to realise that having certain physical gifts is a tremendous advantage. Men want to be with voluptuous women, and this is not going to change anytime soon.